What you get in the end depends on how you formulate your desire. This is really important, so now I will tell you about all the nuances, otherwise the wish may come true exactly as it was made - but, alas! with a lot of side effects.
It turns out that few people know how to make a wish correctly, and I constantly receive questions on this topic. After writing the first version of this article, quite a lot of time passed, during which time I received feedback and comments, my experience also deepened, and as a result the article was completely rewritten.
So, how to make a wish correctly?
Have you read Andersen's book "Galoshes of Happiness"? She clearly shows how carefully you need to be thoughtful about your thoughts and tells what happened to a person who had every wish that came to mind come true. The result was sad - he died.
As examples, I will use real questions, most of which were posted in reviews of the previous version of the article. You can verify this by reading all the comments below.
1. Formulate your intention in the present tense, as if it has already come true!
In some letters, site visitors complain that their wishes do not come true, although they wrote them down in the Book of Wishes. Sometimes I asked for an example (anonymous, of course). And what happened?
The following options are very common: “I want to have a close relationship with N.”, “I want to earn 90 thousand rubles a month,” “I want to have my own apartment.”
Dear friends! This won't work! Are you saying what you want? Well, as much as you want. The universe won't mind. There is even a chance that she will not give you what you want for longer, so that you continue to want. There is no point in saying “I want!”, “I hope!”, “I wish!”, instead declare in the present tense that you already have it. Write: “I have a close relationship with N.”, “I earn 90 thousand rubles a month,” “I have a wonderful, spacious apartment.”
This is how you assert your intention.
2. Don't limit yourself to exact deadlines!
The second very common mistake is trying to time what you want to happen on a specific date. For example, if you write “I will lose weight by February 12, 2014” or “He will come to me and confess his love on Valentine’s Day,” you will most likely be disappointed. The Universe needs time to fulfill its thoughts, perhaps to prepare some circumstances, or some of your beliefs that interfere with it must change. If at the moment when you have already tuned in and waited, nothing happens, you will think that this is nonsense, that nothing is working. The universe will agree with you because your life reflects your beliefs.
May your dream come true at the most appropriate time. You cannot know exactly what time it is.
3. Forget about "not"
When formulating a goal, avoid using the partial “not.” Determine for yourself what exactly you want and not what you don’t want.
Example from reviews:
Hello. I read the book "The Secret". It says that the Universe does not distinguish between negatives, i.e. I don’t and I have bad habits - it’s the same thing. In this regard, difficulties arose. How to make a wish correctly, just write, I quit smoking? Please tell me.
Answer: I lead a healthy, smoking-free lifestyle.
4. Feelings instead of details
If you have watched the movie “Blinded by Desires,” you can imagine how difficult it is to formulate a wish so that the result is completely satisfactory.
Various sources often advise you to write down in great detail the details of what you want, to literally make lists, for example, of the desired qualities of the man you want to meet. But in practice it has been proven that it is impossible to foresee everything.
Forum participants wrote that they had met a man with all the characteristics described, but he, for example, turned out to be unfaithful and quickly began to cheat. I still remember this girl’s statement: “but I didn’t think that it was necessary to write fidelity... I thought this quality came with the package.” An equally common option is that love does not happen at all with such a “completely suitable” man, he simply turns out to be unsuitable. This is not just like that - you cannot know exactly which man is suitable for solving your life and personal problems. What to do?
I propose using more general formulations for description, perhaps using not so much specific characteristics, but feelings and emotions:
“I am happy and calm with my beloved man,”
“I am completely satisfied with my work, morally and financially,”
“I feel free and easy, I have a constant stable income that covers my needs”
5. The desire must be environmentally friendly
That is, it should not cause harm to third parties. Of course, few people consciously wish harm to others, scrupulously writing it down in the Book of Desires (for example, for my neighbor to be fired and his wife to leave him!), but you should not wish for your lover to leave his family for you. Sometimes they ask me questions about what to do if a dream can come true in a negative way, for example, you want to get a certain amount of money or an apartment, and here your aunt is lying on her last legs, but you don’t want her to die at all. In this case, add the phrase “implementation will be simple and pleasant for the benefit of me and those around me.”
However, to be on the safe side and so that you yourself are not disappointed in how your intention is realized, you can add this phrase to all your desires.
6. Do not include specific persons in the description
This point raises the most questions and disputes, and this is understandable, because our strongest aspirations, as a rule, are associated with the love sphere, where we cannot do without these persons.
Why do I advise avoiding this? But because a particular person may not want a relationship with you, and with your will you will try to influence his soul. The result may be the exact opposite effect. But if you desperately want to end your relationship with him, then clearly stipulate in the wording that fulfillment is permissible only if it does not contradict the inner thoughts of this person.
Here are a few questions and answers that I brought to this point from the reviews:
But how can one correctly formulate a desire for the return of an ex-boyfriend? “I am building a happy future together with N, if he also subconsciously wants this” or “I accept N, who has returned to me, to build our happy future together with him, if this does not contradict his subconscious intentions.” Or do you need a different formulation, more correct, short and specific??? Please tell me!!!
Answer: I’m actually inclined to think that the best formulation is something like “I am happy and calm with my man, we have a serious relationship and mutual love.” After all, this is, I hope, the final goal? Or do you absolutely need N. to repent and come back? If this option is simpler for the Universe, then it will return with my formulation. Especially if you let him go in your heart.
Please share your advice: how can I correctly formulate the desire for the person I have been dating for a long time to come back and we try to build our relationship anew. Is it possible to write this person's Name, but also write "if he wants it too"?
Answer: I am always against getting my ex back. Because there is a chance that his departure is for the better for both of you, you will just understand it later. But I know that it is extremely difficult not to try to return it back when the emotions have not yet subsided. Often such a return is possible. Therefore, I advise you to make a wish only if you really want to, making sure to mention that this return is consistent with your subconscious intention.
My lover left and I can’t forget him, I feel very bad. I understand that it is better not to make wishes for a specific person, but I do not believe in any abstract formulations in my soul. I only want him... and I can’t let him go.
Answer: my webinar Fulfilling desires in love and reducing importance can help you.
Good evening. Please tell me. I’ve read a lot, but I still don’t understand one thing: if I want to wish for a specific person to recover, how to formulate this?
Answer: something like “my brother (husband, mother..) feels better and healthier every day, if this is consistent with his own intention.”
Please tell me, otherwise I’m a little confused: it is not recommended to write the NAME of a specific person in your desire. Is it possible to write about him in a more streamlined manner, for example, “a person with whom I recently quarreled” or “a person with whom I dated for so many years”???
Answer: I think it depends on what you want. If you make peace, then you can write your name, write that relations with N. improve if N. also subconsciously wants this.
And one last thing.
Don't ask me how to formulate a desire, except perhaps in the most complex and confusing cases. This is your desire, coming from your soul, only you know what exactly you want. While you are thinking about how best to compose it, it may turn out that you don’t need it at all.
In order to correctly formulate a desire:
1. Affirm it in the present tense, as if everything has already come true. You can visualize it both mentally and by attaching pictures. But don’t get too carried away, don’t think that life isn’t good for you without him.
2. Don't get attached to specific dates. Let the Universe itself decide when it is best to implement it.
3. Do not use the particle “not” when making a wish.
4. Take time to think through your goal carefully and try to formulate it in fairly general terms that include the feelings of achieving it.
5. The desire should be environmentally friendly, not causing harm to you or others. If in doubt, add language like “implementation is permissible only in a manner favorable to everyone.”
6. The wish should not include specific individuals. If you really want to include it, add the phrase that “this does not contradict the inner intention of this person.”
May your wishes come true!
Ekaterina, https://site
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31-12-2019
I am happy with my husband, we have prosperity and love in our family. Our children are happy, as are my husband and I.
How do you like it?
Answer: What do we care about) your desire.
30-12-2019
I gave birth to a healthy beautiful girl in 2020. Right?
Answer: Yes, you can do that. If you are not yet pregnant, it is better not to indicate the year.
30-12-2019
Good afternoon! Please tell me, did I make the wish correctly?
“I live with my husband in great love and harmony. My husband is faithful to me. He generously gives me expensive gifts. I am at peace with my husband. This does not contradict the inner intention of my husband.”
Answer: We think you can talk about your husband, but word it differently. My family has happy and harmonious relationships. They contain loyalty, trust, respect and love. I am a happy and beloved wife of a generous man.
28-12-2019
And so? I'm glad I made peace with my boyfriend
Answer: Still undesirable. Maybe he doesn't want to put up. It’s better this way: I’m happy in love, I love and am loved, I receive a marriage proposal and accept it. Something like that. As for only you.
28-12-2019
Tell me, what do you say about the technique of influencing reality with the help of a psychological attitude using the words “I allow” and “I cancel”? Can they be used to formulate a desire?
Answer: Try it and tell us. I know these techniques, but somehow I haven’t used them.
28-12-2019
We broke up with a young man... Please tell me how to write correctly in the wish... 1) We made peace with Sasha and he took me to live in Krasnodar or 2) We are together with Sasha and he took me to live in Krasnodar... Thank you .
Answer: No Sasha at will! Read the article.
27-12-2019
Hello. Please tell me, if you can make several wishes at the same time, how to formulate them correctly?
Answer: Each separately according to the specified rules.
23-12-2019
Good night. Please tell me. My eldest daughter (14 years old) and I have relationship problems. The child completely ignores me and pretends that I don’t exist. You can make a wish like this. I am a happy, beloved and loving mother of a healthy, well-mannered, intelligent, sensitive, caring and hardworking daughter. To the delight of me and my loved ones. Or wish it a little differently? My relationship with my daughter is improving and we are getting closer every day.
Please correct.
Answer: More likely the second.
19-12-2019
Is it possible to formulate one desire like this: “I see my man sober, leading a healthy lifestyle, free from smoking, self-sufficient and self-realized” or are these two different desires? Thank you.
Answer: I think in this case you can say so. In one wish.
19-12-2019
Hello! After you have written your wishes, is it possible to burn the sheet? If not, what to do with it?
Answer: Why burn? I personally write everything in the Book of Desires, such problems do not arise.
18-12-2019
Hello! My husband’s daughter has blood cancer, a 7-year-old girl.
Can I write that I want my husband’s daughter to recover and can I write the girl’s name?
Answer: It’s better to let the parents write...
17-12-2019
Tell me, is it possible to make several wishes at once?
Answer: Yes
16-12-2019
Hello. Please tell me and help me correctly formulate my wishes as the chimes strike. Such desires. 1) So that our family goes to Kaliningrad in 2020. 2) To buy a 3-4 room apartment. 3) to make a good repair. 4) so that my husband and I have a well-paid job. 5) so that my son goes to kindergarten in Kaliningrad and is healthy. 6) so that they buy a car there and pass it on for a license. 7) so that there are no problems with moving and there is enough money for everything 🙏🙏🙏 thank you in advance
Answer: I don’t help formulate desires, these are your desires. YOURSELF.
14-12-2019
Hello! My intention is for another person. After carefully re-reading your recommendations, weighing all the pros and cons, I decided to rewrite the intention. Is it possible to rewrite? Or what to do in such a situation? Thank you
Answer: You can rewrite it.
14-12-2019
Hello! Please tell me how to correctly formulate wishes for health. I have cancer.
You can write - In 2020, all doctors tell me that I am completely healthy.
Answer: It is possible, but it can also be expanded. “I feel completely healthy, cheerful” “I am completely cured, I am completely healthy”, etc. At the same time, read the article and download Lance Armstrong's book
09-12-2019
I don’t understand! You can’t indicate a specific person, even if you write at the same time_if it corresponds to his intentions! Why then do you write this, if you really want to, then you can write like that! It’s possible, then it’s not! In the end, is it possible with these words? !
Answer: I say that you don’t need a specific person. If you try anyway (and many do), then at a minimum, use this wording. But you must understand that you can do worse.
02-12-2019
Hello! I want to start a notebook of wishes, keep it by sector! Is it possible to leave blank pieces of paper for future wishes, and then write another wish? Or is it better not to skip and fill it completely? 🤔
Answer: I didn’t keep a notebook of wishes, I can’t say. I write everything in the Book of Desires.
26-11-2019
Can you add wishes?
Where should I keep my wish list?))
Answer: Yes. We store it in the Book of Wishes on this website.
24-11-2019
Hello!! Please tell me how to formulate a wish if I want to get pregnant this year?
Answer: Well, it's simple.
21-11-2019
Hello. I really want to go abroad with my husband and children. And stay there to live. I want to live in my own house. And not rent an apartment. And have a job with a good salary. How to guess it correctly? How to write correctly. And another question. How for the New Year. Make wishes correctly. What would definitely come true.
Answer: That's it.
11-11-2019
One person is dear to me, I want us to communicate like friends. How can I formulate this desire?
Answer: Read the article. Cannot be formulated for specific individuals.
10-11-2019
N became my best friend. If you can’t, then how can you write??
Answer: There is no need to write about N. You can simply write that you have a best friend.
09-11-2019
Should only wishes be written on the wish sheet, or should it be written at the top that this is a WISH LIST and FULL NAME (WHOSE), and write something at the bottom? Amen for example.
Answer: I don’t know what kind of wish list you have.
09-11-2019
Is it possible? N became my best friend. If this is wrong, please correct it...
Answer: Not possible.
06-11-2019
Tell me, please, is it possible to write all my desires in a notebook and continue to keep it as a diary, like a notepad, where I will write down all my inner feelings and thoughts?
Answer: Yes, as you like.
05-11-2019
I accept N returning to me if it does NOT contradict his intentions. You wrote above that the Universe does not perceive “NOT” 😂👍
Answer: I wrote in the comments a hundred times, write “corresponds to his intention.”
02-11-2019
Hello! Distant relatives have not repaid the debt for many years. It is unlikely that *return is consistent with their subconscious intention*. How would it be correct to write? After all, my desire interferes with their reluctance.
Answer: Write about yourself that your money is being returned.
31-10-2019
Hello! Please tell me this is correct:
I have lost 25 kg, I feel great and will always remain slim.
Thank you
Answer: It’s yourself ;-)
27-10-2019
Hello:)
I have read many places that desire, on the contrary, must be limited in time. Almost until a specific day... Even the company where I work told me how best to do this.
“Sit down in silence, completely relax and turn on calm music. Think about your desire. Then a date will pop up in your head by itself. Write it down.” - And they told us this about the wish card. They also talked about the red notebook, in which 101 wishes need to be written down on the waxing moon.
I'm already completely confused))) Some say one thing, others say another... Did it work worse for you when you limited your desire in time? - this is the first question.
And the second question: Have you used the red pad method yourself? I didn't find any articles on a similar topic. 101 wishes are written in a red notebook (ideally, the pages should also be gold). And you need to write them all with a red pen
Answer: Do as you like. I never make plans for a specific date and I am against it. Even in the 100 Day Notebook technique it is implied that wishes can come true within 100 days, but without a clear date. I didn't use the red notebook.
14-10-2019
Hello! How to correctly formulate a desire for your hair to stop falling out? After all, you can’t concentrate on the bad.
And the wording should be specific, not just “I have healthy hair.”
Answer: Write “I have thick hair.”
08-10-2019
Good afternoon Did you mean to say “I have 20,000 as the remaining amount for an apartment located at the address...”, without indicating the currency?????
Why not indicate rubles???? Thank you
Answer: No, you can indicate it, I just wrote it that way.
07-10-2019
Good afternoon Or you can make a wish like this: “I have 20,000 rubles in the form of the sum for the apartment located at the address...?????”
Answer: I would just wish for 20,000.
06-10-2019
Is it possible to make a wish like this?
“I have a handsome, tall, beloved, kind and faithful guy. We have mutual love and I didn’t know this guy when I made a wish.”
Answer: It’s possible, but “not” in some other way.
03-10-2019
Ekaterina, hello!
I have a daughter who has been alone since the first day of pregnancy. I'm not entirely sure who her father is. I've had two partners (she kind of looks like one of them, but I'm still worried and not sure). And this topic has been bothering me for a long time. I want to know the truth. How to formulate a desire? Please tell me.
My version: “I live with a feeling of complete peace and joy from understanding who the biological father of my daughter is.”
Answer: Yes, you can do that.
01-10-2019
What to do if wishes come true, but not in the way I want. For example, I wanted a new phone. I bought it. But in installments. I would like to use my own money. That is, pay immediately and not take out loans. Where to make the correction?
Answer: It seems that you yourself understand where)
29-09-2019
And when the wish comes true, what should you do with the wish written in the notebook?
Answer: Nothing, watch and enjoy.
23-09-2019
Am I happy in my relationship with N?
So it is possible?
Answer: Not possible.
19-09-2019
Good afternoon
I made a lot of wishes about me and my husband...for example, “my husband and I vacationed in Vietnam, or my husband and I have our own home.” And now I’m thinking, is it environmentally friendly if I made it for a specific person? But then how can I draw it up correctly if I love my husband and want my wishes to come true with him? If I pretend that I went to Vietnam, then it turns out that I will go there myself... Please tell me
Answer: Write to yourself. Keep it simple. If you have it, your husband will too.
Hello. Please tell me how to correctly formulate a wish for my son’s health
Answer: “I see my son healthy (more details can be found here).”
05-05-2019
Good evening! What about points 5 and 6? And if this is consistent with the daughter’s inner intention. She herself will not make a wish. I'm skeptical about all this! What to do? The clock is ticking!
Answer: Well, guess, but it’s still better not to. You are interfering with a third party. Your daughter has her own path, with or without a watch. (It’s just as if my mother was writing about 10 years ago)) Do you want some friendly advice from your daughter? Don't blow her mind about this topic. Don't say anything at all. The pressure makes you want to do everything the other way around. At one time I almost lost the desire for children from constant hints and direct conversations. The very thought began to infuriate me)
04-05-2019
Can my desire be considered environmentally friendly? If it sounds like this: I am happy for my daughter, who happily marries a worthy man who loves her and loves her, if this is consistent with her inner intention. Implementation is permissible only in a manner favorable to everyone.
Answer: I already wrote to you that there is no need to make such wishes. Especially on behalf of all mothers. Your daughter decides her homework, but here you desperately need her marriage. Get busy with your life.
01-05-2019
The daughter lives in another city. I really want her to meet and marry a worthy man. Can I formulate my desire like this: I am happy and glad for my daughter who marries a person worthy in every way, if this is consistent with her inner intention!
Thank you.
Answer: It is not advisable to do it for others.
Desires - simple, everyday, or, conversely, grandiose, every person has while he is alive. It is a normal state of mind to want something more or something better than what you have. In order not only to want, but also to receive what is cherished, you need to know how to correctly formulate a desire. There is a lot of advice on what to say and how, or better yet, write it down, and everything will certainly come true. Oh, if only everything were so simple! Then there would not be a single unhappy, poor, sick person left in the world... But what in reality? Why aren’t the Universe, the Higher Powers or someone else in a hurry to fulfill what was asked? Is it just because mistakes were made in the wording? In our article we will tell you not only how to correctly formulate a desire, but also how to force the Universe to pay attention to it, and how to activate the process of its fulfillment. The information we provide is based on the knowledge and practical experience of magicians, as well as on the opinions of scientists involved in the issues of energy in the World Space.
Why does the Universe grant wishes?
You can find a lot of information that our Universe certainly fulfills all desires, if only they are properly voiced and transferred directly to the Heavenly Office. It is on knowing how to correctly formulate your desire for the Universe that the result depends. How many people imagine what kind of sorceress this is, the Universe (or, as they also say, the cosmos infinite in space and time)?
Scientists have already established that we humans are not just an explosive mixture of material and spiritual. Each of us is a small microcosm, a separate unique Universe. It is surrounded and penetrated by special energy fields. Their nature is such that they absorb our thoughts every second - bad, good, all indiscriminately. Thus, a specific energy environment is created around us, which, according to as yet unclear laws, strives to attract to us what we have thought into it. Moreover, she pulls everything, even what is not needed. An example of this is complaining about an unhappy life. Those who cry a lot live like that. Therefore, the first law of fulfilling happy desires is to think only about the good in any situation, and as often as possible. But complaining, crying so that others feel sorry for you, thinking that nothing will work out for you, and the like, is strictly prohibited.
What prevents your dreams from coming true
Everyone wants to know how to correctly formulate a wish so that it comes true. And after doing everything exactly, they wonder why nothing changes. Perhaps if we lived on a desert island, our wishes would come true more often. But our small Universes, to which we have given instructions to fulfill a desire, are constantly in contact with dozens of other similar Universes, the owners of which “write” each their own on them. The energetic interactions between these very sensitive fields can erase records or adjust them in completely unnecessary directions. How can you influence this? No way. Just “rewrite” yours more often until it comes true. In simple words, you need to wish for something often. This works especially well when no one and nothing distracts. Then you can fully concentrate and make an energetic “record” of desire that is especially strong, one that is difficult to erase. In general, it’s ideal if you and someone close to you have the same dream, for example, your mother and you really want you to go to college. Then the “record” for the same desire will double and, accordingly, intensify.
What is better - to say wishes or write them down?
Some, when talking about how to correctly formulate a desire, warn that it must be written down. In principle, for energy fields it is the same. You need to write down your desire on paper, first of all. For what? Because not everyone can produce their own thought forms with equal strength. Therefore, a desire formed only in the mind does not always work. If a person perceives a desire both in the mind and visually on paper, it receives an additional charge of energy. But whether you write it down or say it out loud, you have a responsibility to visualize what you want in life. You need to do this to such an extent that you can smell the desire, taste it, and see its color. Example: if you dream of getting a certain position, you need to mentally see yourself in the desired workplace every day. You can start to imagine this from how you get ready for your new job in the morning, get dressed, comb your hair, travel in public transport, then how you are greeted, what they say to you, how you sit down at your desk, etc. Moreover, visualize you need in the smallest details, right down to the color of your shoes or the taste of the coffee that a caring secretary will bring you in your new position. In other words, you need to learn to mentally live in your already fulfilled desire.
Where to write down your dreams
For those who find it difficult to visualize, it is important to learn how to correctly formulate a desire on paper. Many people advise starting a special journal for this, called the “Book of Desires.”
It’s clear that it’s only needed for you. By creating it, decorating it, designing it, you will perform a kind of energy ritual, with the help of which a simple notebook purchased in an ordinary stationery department will turn into a magical assistant. How to make such a book? First you need to look for a notebook with tear-off sheets. Its appearance and price depend only on your taste. At home, when no one is bothering you, you need to decorate this notebook beautifully, bringing your preferences into the decor. They can be color, lace, ribbons, pasted photos of flowers. Thus, you seem to tie this notebook to your energy. On the cover or on the first sheet you need to write your name and the words “Book of Desires”. Some people recommend adding “Dedicated to the Universe.” You need to write in the Book without crossing out, diligently. Each wish needs to be allocated a separate sheet, and after fulfillment, it should be torn out and burned.
How to correctly formulate desires, examples
The book is ready, now you need to know what to write in it. Everyone has their own desires. Some people need fame, others just to get well... And yet, all desires are written down according to general rules. There are only six of them:
1. Write as if the desire has already been fulfilled, for example, not “I want to go” or “I will go to Egypt,” but “I am going to Egypt.”
2. Eliminate the particle “not”. For example, not “I’m not sick,” but “I’m absolutely healthy.”
3. Do not harm anyone with your desire. For example, not “I took the place of Tanya Ivanova’s boss,” but “I got a wonderful, highly paid job that I deserve.”
4. Don’t set specific deadlines. Why? You and I have one time frame, and the Universe has another. A mismatch can completely ruin all efforts.
5. Do not name specific names. For example, not “I am the wife of Petya Ivanov, whom I love very much,” but “I am the happy wife of the man I love most.”
6. Don't write down a lot of details. They are good for visualization, but interfere with recording.
When to wish
Magicians believe that it is important not only how to correctly formulate a desire so that it comes true, but also when to do it.
Traditionally, everyone makes wishes when the clock strikes for the New Year. It is believed, and not without reason, that at this time the fulfillment of plans is most likely. It is also productive to make a birthday wish in front of candles burning on the cake. Another day that magicians recommend is the 27th. No one can explain why exactly it is, but it works. And not only the day of the calendar, but any number 27. This could be the number of candies purchased and eaten during the wishing, the price of the product, the house number, looking at which you say your wish, etc.
Magicians also advise making all wishes on the waxing moon, especially those related to profit.
Desires for science
Not only magicians, but also scientists are trying to answer how to correctly formulate a wish so that it comes true. Only they do not use witchcraft, but reason. You are asked to draw a circle, symbolizing the wheel of fortune. It will roll smoothly through life if it is without curvature. In the drawn wheel (circle) we draw 4 spokes, that is, we divide it in half and in half again.
It turned out something like a cross. At the top we write: “Body”. This includes food, health, recreation, and sports. Opposite below we write: “Work”. This includes everything related to it - tasks, reports, meetings. On the left we write: “Spirituality.” This is our self-improvement, work on self-knowledge, discovery of something new. On the right we write: “Contacts”. These are our friends, family, acquaintances. The occupancy of the wheel should be 100%, that is, each segment needs to be allocated only 25%, otherwise it will become skewed and will roll through life using only “eights”. Therefore, desires in the sections “body”, “work”, “spirituality” and “contacts” need to be distributed equally. For example, you cannot dream about marriage, and only about it. You need to additionally set yourself some other goals in working on yourself, in developing your spirituality (suddenly you learn something useful for that same marriage).
Rely on the Universe, but don’t make a mistake yourself
Even if you know exactly how to correctly formulate a desire, you cannot rely only on the Universe. You have to try a little yourself, because it only falls into open mouths in fairy tales. Therefore, it doesn’t hurt at all to write next to the desire point by point what is needed to fulfill it. Let's give a simple example: you want to get well. But if you don’t get treatment, health won’t appear on its own. Let's take another example - you wrote in your notebook: “I am slim.” Make an additional plan for yourself from very small desires:
I refuse cakes;
I don't eat at night;
I took up sports.
The same can be said about other desires.
How to become rich
Nowadays, the question of how to correctly formulate a desire for money is the main one, because without it you can lose everything else. It is useful, if you want to have a lot of money, to make a plan for getting it. It can include not only work, but also, for example, a big win or something else. The main thing is that the ways to achieve your desire should not harm anyone. Next, when writing down a thought about future money, you need to formulate a phrase like “I am rich, I am happy and glad.” Magicians advise you to secure your application in the Universe. There are many rituals for this, but we offer the simplest one. In the silence of the night on the waxing moon, put a mirror, light a candle in front of it (preferably green), sit down, look at the flame and try your best to see yourself as successful, rich, happy. The more bright, living pictures that appear before your eyes, the faster your wish will come true. How? Fate will tell.
How to correctly formulate a desire for marriage (example)
This question interests every single girl. Of course, if you write “I am the wife of the man I love” and sit at home waiting for him to appear, you may not get anything done. You need, as already written above, to take certain steps yourself - lead an active lifestyle, make new acquaintances, travel, work on your appearance, go to discos in the end. You can also try to trust marriage agencies. Some of this will work.
Often women who have experienced betrayal and separation ask how to correctly formulate their desire for marriage. An obstacle to the fulfillment of what is planned here can be women’s attachment to their “ex,” unforgiven grievances, and plans for revenge. We can advise one thing - either fight for your destroyed happiness and not dream of a new one, or throw the past out of your head, tear it out of your soul, sincerely wish “him” all the best, thereby clearing a place for happiness in your energy field. Until this is done, the past will simply not allow the new to gain a foothold there. And you can write down your wish like this: “I am a happy and beloved wife, I have a very good, faithful and devoted husband.”
Results
In conclusion, I would like to say that desires come true only when we fight for it. The paths are different. Some rely on the correct entries in the “Book of Desires,” while others try to achieve everything themselves. And it works best if you combine these two paths into one, that is, use some magic of wish fulfillment, at least in the form of writing them down in a notebook and in daily visualization. And at the same time, make efforts to bring the deadline closer. The main thing is not to create happiness for yourself at the expense of the misfortune of others. The universe does not accept such methods.
When making a wish, including one about love, people deep down hope that it will come true. And often wishes really come true. Especially often - among those who can correctly guess them and activate the forces responsible for their execution.
First, learn to think systematically. If every day you passionately dream of loving and being loved, but you think that in order to do this you must first achieve perfection, correct your figure, go to beauty salons, earn money - this is the wrong train of thought. In fact, only the desire to improve oneself will come true, but not to find love and not achieve it. If you constantly ask yourself, “What else should I do to get reciprocal feelings from so-and-so?”, then in reality you will just find a couple more new ways to show your feelings. Of several wishes, the strongest one comes true. If you dream of finding love, it may be found in the most unexpected place and at the most unexpected time.
Don't limit the ways in which your desire can come true. Don't set limits or boundaries. If you want to find the love of your life, don't think about meeting a handsome prince who will definitely have an expensive car, house and yacht. If the goal is to get married or get married, then everything is correct. Only your chosen one may be found with an extremely bad character or is no longer free. By setting restrictions, for example, “my chosen one or chosen one should only be fair-haired,” you prohibit the desire to be fulfilled in other ways. In other words, by complicating a desire, you make it more difficult for those forces that are “responsible” for its fulfillment to fulfill it.
Make love wishes for the New Year, for your birthday, for Valentine's Day. These are the most effective days, when the passion for fulfilling your desire is greatly enhanced by your emotional mood. Prepare yourself in advance to perceive miracles and inexplicable things. Remember how you once received big and small gifts from fate. Believe, as far as possible, believe in the possibility of fulfilling what you have planned, in the fact that this is how it should be. Try to see the world around you in a positive light, this will also increase your chances of fulfilling your desires.
Formulate your desire correctly. Talk not about what you don't want, but about what you do want. Make a wish so that the fulfillment of your plan does not depend on anyone but you. Incorrect: “I want him to love me.” That's right: “I want to make so-and-so fall in love with me.” Make wishes that correspond to your capabilities. When formulating your “request”, either be as broad as possible, or carefully consider all the conditions. But, in the first case, you may not realize the dream you dreamed of, and in the second, you may have to wait a long time for its fulfillment. After you have formulated your desire, try to visualize it. Dream about making it come true. Imagine in your dreams all the shades and details of achieving what you want. These dreams should definitely please you, lift your spirits, so that the emotional charge will help your desire come true as soon as possible. Feel that you are worthy of fulfilling your desire.
Be sure to indicate the deadline for fulfilling your desire. Otherwise, it will come true after many, many years. But be prudent: don’t expect it to be completed in 20 minutes. Start paying attention to the signs that appear in your life. It happens that they tell you the way to the place where your dream is destined to come true. Or they hinder you when you unconsciously run away from realizing your dreams.
There are a lot of people who are not ready to fulfill their desires. They made plans to meet a loved one, and when they meet, they run past, hurrying to work. Or they suddenly begin to doubt and prevent the relationship from developing. And the next opportunity to realize your dream may not come. Therefore, do not resist your destiny, otherwise no forces will be able to realize for you what you have wished for.
Let's start with the main thing: the Word has POWER and AUTHORITY! This is an axiom and there is no need to prove it. Therefore, we take this statement as a basis and learn to “want correctly.” For our wishes to come true we need:
- first, WANT and DESIRE
- secondly, understand yourself and track: what do you REALLY want.
I have this rule: every morning when I wake up, I send my 10 “I want!”s to the Universe. I’m just listing them with pleasure and crossing my fingers. Desires are very diverse. From “I want my mom to bake my favorite vertuta for breakfast,” “I want new nail polish,” to “I want to fly into space with a team of cool astronauts” and “I want to win the Miss Universe competition.”
At this moment of “wanting” I don’t think at all about how fulfillable my desires are. I enjoy playing this game. I allow myself to WANT! Without analysis I can-I can’t, without it’s possible-impossible. As they say, I allow myself to want “without a roof.” I'm enjoying the game while tracking my mood today. I have a whole wonderful day ahead of me to realize my desires.
And the first thing I send you my message about is to learn to WANT
Express your wishes! Allow yourself to “let go of your brain” and wish for the most incredible things! If you ask the Universe a question, you will definitely receive an answer. Wish!
Track which desire you repeat most often
And perhaps every morning. If you can’t keep track of your wishes orally, write them down. This way, you will have an understanding of what your darling is asking for. What does it strive for? Write this desire down separately. Look at him.
How do you feel about what you wrote? How does this reflect in your heart? How much does it resonate with your inner world, with your state today. Please note, today, because only this matters: the conscious state is here and now!
This is how our true desires are born. What do we really want? I repeat that we REALLY WANT. As the proverb says: “Wanting is not harmful. It’s harmful not to want.”
And here it is also important to learn how to correctly pronounce your desires
Space works magically. It understands everything in its own way. And he needs to formulate requests clearly and correctly and in a very accessible way.
When my clients, during a psychotherapeutic session, begin to speak in confusing, complex, general phrases, then I have a great technique. I say: “Imagine that I am 5 years old. Explain what you just said to a five-year-old child so that he understands.”
I am sharing this magical technique with you. It works well for many situations. It will also work great when you make a wish. In order to understand yourself, explain to yourself what you really want as if you were telling it to a baby. It works! Immediately there appears clarity of formulation, clarity of thought, depth of expression and understanding of whether this is what I want.
And talk about what you want
In the literal sense of the word. The formulation “I don’t want to be haunted by failures” will work exactly the opposite. As you know, the Universe does not hear the “no” particle. Therefore, I repeat, say WHAT YOU WANT. “I want to be successful and lucky” is correct. Focus on desire, not denial. WORKS! Tested for myself.
And now we come to where we started - how to correctly formulate your desires so that they certainly come true.
The Word has Power and Authority. Let's remember this. What you get in the end depends on how you formulate your desire. This is an axiom and enough is already known about this phenomenon. It is really important to correctly formulate wishes when making wishes, so now I will tell you about all the nuances, otherwise the wish may come true exactly as it was made - but, alas, with a bunch of side effects.
It seems that there’s nothing complicated about it: I wanted it, I made a wish. Then why don’t you end up getting what you wanted and ordered?
So, how to make a wish correctly?
How to choose the right words to make your wish come true? After all, WORDS are the KEY to the Universe.
Read, if you haven’t already, Hans Andersen’s “Galoshes of Happiness.” It quite clearly shows how carefully you need to pay attention to your thoughts and tells what happened to a person who had every wish that came to mind come true. The result was sad - he died. Therefore, again and again I write that the WORD has POWER and AUTHORITY! You need to use this power and authority carefully, skillfully, giving a full account of your thoughts and spoken words.
Example! My close friend repeated to me her cherished wish for a month: « I want to lose weight!". She talked about this desire of hers left and right. Just a “fix” idea. Her wish came true - she lost weight... having contracted pneumonia... After a month and a half of treatment, she was skin and bones. I even had to dial it. An elementary example, but it very clearly and clearly shows that you need to be able to make wishes!
Therefore, follow the algorithm presented below and then everything will be executed exactly the way you want it!
- Wish. 10 morning wishes, pronounced confidently and with passion, will teach you to want and enjoy it.
- Keep track of those desires that are repeated most often. If you fly into space and eat a piece of a snake very rarely, then let’s release them to the will of the Universe. But if the desire is repeated day after day, then this is a signal - here it is! This is what I really want.
- Formulate your messages to the Universe simply, use the 5-year trick.
- Talk about what you WANT to get, not what you want to avoid. The Universe does not hear the particles of “not”.
- Be careful with your words when making a wish. Check with yourself. Formulate it as simply and clearly as possible. Everything ingenious is simple. Everything is banal - it works. Wish, and may your wishes be, firstly, heard by the Universe. And, secondly, heard correctly! And definitely fulfilled!
It is believed that the Universe hears all our requests, but it always has 3 possible answers: “yes!”, “yes, but later,” “I can offer something better.” Today we'll talk about how to correctly formulate desires so that the Universe understands them correctly. Everyone knows that the Universe has 3 nuances:
“She doesn’t know the words “no” and “not.” Therefore, instead of “I don’t want to lose my job,” we say “I want to stay at my job.”
“She doesn’t distinguish between strong desire and strong fear.” Therefore, your obsessive fear of getting fat will be a priority for her over your desire to lose weight.
— She does not respond to requests for money. Because money is not the goal, it is always only a means. So if you need money, then ask not for it, but for what it is needed for - a house, a car, a trip, etc.
Now let's deal with wish fulfillment technique and correct conversation with the Universe.
1. There must be one desire, clearly formulated in our head and not have additional conditions. For example, you want to start a family. Figure out what you are asking for - a husband or the person you will love. You understand that your husband is not always loved, and the one you love does not necessarily marry you. Therefore, if you need a husband, then expect a man who is ready to propose to you, but it is not a fact that you will like him. If sympathy is important, then we make a wish “I want a loved one.” Mutual love can also be “ordered”, but as a “complex desire”, it will take longer to fulfill, and blots and nuances are possible. If you are doing this for the first time, ask for one thing.
2. The desire should concern only you - not children, not husband, not friends, not anyone else. So instead of “I want my husband to earn a lot”, “so that my mother-in-law stops interfering in our life”, “so that my grandmother doesn’t get sick”, we rework the requests in such a way that we are the main characters in them. “I want to drive an expensive car with my husband and go on vacation 3 times a year,” “I dream of living in peace so that no one bothers me with advice,” “I’m going to help my grandmother plant tomatoes next year.”
3. Wish with your soul, not with your mind and logic. If you ask for a husband when you actually enjoy being alone, it won't work. The Universe subtly senses what lies deep in your soul, so if you keep asking, wanting, waiting for something, but it doesn’t happen, it means your desire is not sincere.
4. The desire must be positive and kind. Should not harm other people. Yes, bad intentions come true no worse, but they carry with them bad energy that a person does not know how to control, and in the end it turns out to be harmful to him. In addition, bad requests often collide with the will of another person and his requests. You ask him evil, and at the same time he asks for good for himself. How should the Universe respond to both of you? Usually she makes a choice in favor of a positive desire, unless we are talking about a collective “curse” on someone.
5. A desire should not be a condition for the fulfillment of other desires. If you ask for the opportunity to earn money for an apartment in order to leave your husband, the Universe will immediately ask clarifying questions - why do you want to leave your husband? Because he is lazy and a despot. What happens if you leave? I will finally be calm. As soon as a desire moves from logic to feelings, it begins to come true. But not in the form of an apartment, but in the form of an opportunity to leave her husband. Which one - the Universe knows best what is best for you.
6. You need to wish to the maximum. If you have health problems and really want 2 children, then think of 4 at once))) You still don’t have the opportunity to give birth to one, but “the more you wish, the more you get,” and the possibilities of the Universe are limitless.
7. Desire should not be tied to time. It’s clear that you want to get married before 30. But the Universe has its own vision of the optimal timing for your life.
8. Don’t tell anyone what you wished for. People are different. Someone has dislike or envy towards you and will not want you to feel good. And his thoughts also go out into the Universe.
9. If you are completely new to this business, write down your desires or draw up a “wish map” so that this will help you better tune into a dialogue with the Universe.
And finally, how to correctly “send” already formulated requests to the Universe. The main condition is to clearly express the desire, fix its image in your head and... forget. You can write it on a piece of paper, crumple it up and throw it into the sea, bury it or ceremonially burn it. The shape is not particularly significant. The most important thing is not to rush around, not to turn it into an obsession, not to lament “well, when?” Live in peace - and sometimes before going to bed, remember it and dream about how good it will be when it comes true, imagine yourself in this long-awaited situation.
