The same people get married.
On dating sites, 80% of letters are received by 20% of women.
I think you have heard these or similar statements more than once... Just look around and you will definitely see a lot of women - smart, beautiful, still young - but for a long time and hopelessly lonely. These are the reasons for female loneliness that I want to talk to you about.
Many people argue with this, but years of work in esotericism allow me to say that loneliness is written in Fate! Don’t think. That someone evil from above suddenly tripped him up just when the coveted prince was already looming on the horizon, no. For most single women, such a chain of events can be traced in their lives.
Such a woman will most likely be born into a family where either there is no father, or the parents divorce early, or simply the relationship between them is extremely tense and the girl simply has nowhere to take positive experience of the relationship between husband and wife; she is initially deprived of the opportunity to observe and learn how a woman can successfully and fully communicate with a man, how a man can show signs of attention to a woman, and so on. The relationship between father and mother leaves an imprint on all subsequent relationships of a woman with her men!
men, sex, love, which will be persistently instilled in the girl by her mother, grandmother or other relatives. * Sex is dirt, men only want one thing from you *, * you should think about lessons, not about boys * - sound familiar? So, from an early age, a subconscious belief is formed that a man and a relationship with him is something terrible, bad, dirty and unworthy, from which you need to stay away. As she grows up, of course, at the level of her mind and body, a girl will have a desire to like, sexual attraction and a need for love - but inside her a strict mother/grandmother will always sit, telling her about her dirtiness and sinfulness and instilling a sense of guilt.
Go ahead. Very often, women whose Destiny was originally designed to be lonely are deprived of attractiveness from a young age. Problems with skin, height, excess weight, simply ugly facial features - all this is corrected with age, a woman can learn to be, if not beautiful, then at least well-groomed, but.. ..BUT! In her youth, when she has the best chance of getting married and when a girl masters and hones her skills to flirt, please, and use her feminine charms, an ugly girl has much less chance of attracting male attention than her bright and uninhibited ones (let's not forget about the first two point!) girlfriends. Yes, even those. Those who condescend - as a rule, these are not at all the princes they dreamed of.... Bottom line - such a woman DOES NOT KNOW how to flirt, attract attention and hold male attention, does not know how to signal into space * Here I am, I am free, I want you and love! * And if anyone pays attention to her, then she DOES NOT SEE or NOTICE these signs, and therefore the male initiative fades away before it has time to manifest itself.
You can advise such women to go work in a male team, they say, they will definitely pay attention to you, BUT! There is the same rake - they don’t see her, she doesn’t notice. Everything remains at the same level.
And the forces of Fate. Karma, God and other heavenly offices do not sleep! Such a woman is simply NOT GIVEN opportunities to meet men. No situations are created on their own where she could make an acquaintance. For reasons beyond her control, obstacles arise. As an example: she gets a job in an all-male team with the goal of meeting someone there and getting married, but ALL the men end up married. He goes on a date and breaks his heel. A random acquaintance gives her his phone number - she loses it.
A woman lives alone, she is accustomed to relying only on herself, to solve her problems on her own - this changes her character greatly in a direction that men do not like. A woman becomes decisive, sharp, strong, demanding, not ready for compromise and clearly knows what and from whom she wants. Those who know how to see the aura will confirm that in women who have been single for many years, even the shape of the biofield changes, and the energy begins to be distributed according to the male type. She is self-sufficient and there is no longer a place for a man in her life. Which, in fact, was what the Universe wanted from her initially for some of its own purposes.
So what to do with these, you ask? I will answer.
First of all, you need to recognize the fact of loneliness in your destiny. Recognize - and accept it! Don't bury your head in the sand, don't deceive yourself with the myth of *my soul mate. Somewhere wandering around the world, who will definitely find me*, don’t bore the fortune tellers with the question * When will I get married?*. don't sit and wait. But clearly recognize and accept that your destiny is to ALWAYS be alone and the whole universe will push you to this and keep you in this state. And your betrothed will never come to you! Such is fate.
They admitted it, cried, accepted it. What's next? And then it gets more interesting! It often happens that loneliness is not a punishment, but a luxurious gift, it is freedom. Which you can enjoy. Do not look back at your friends and public opinion. Without wasting time waiting for the prince. Which is lost somewhere and you NEED (don’t WANT, but you just NEED :-)) to find it. And just live the way you feel good and live here and now, live only for yourself, your beloved.
But it happens that loneliness is really oppressive and there is no desire to live like this any longer. You can reduce your requirements for men to a minimum, this will significantly increase your chances. To the minimum - this means you are selecting a man rejected by most other women - because you are not competitive and you simply cannot wait for another option. And then you try to improve it as much as possible.
Most likely at this moment you are ready to throw a slipper at me shouting * I, a Doctor of Science, don’t need windshield wipers! *. There is another option. In this case, get ready for hard and long work, again, remembering that no one will give you anything for nothing. You begin work on changing yourself, on clearing away the internal rubble that has accumulated since childhood; at the same time, you try to master those flirting skills that you do not possess, train yourself; At the same time, improving your appearance or style - this is work for a couple of years, with a psychologist, with an image maker + constant self-control and a lot of independent internal work. At the same time, you need to make changes to your usual routine of life, literally drive yourself to places where there is a chance to meet someone, spend hours on dating sites, stubbornly go on dates with everyone who invited you - I use the word work a lot, yes, you will have to look at everything that happens as work! Then the chance will appear. At the same time, do not forget - this is just a chance, not a guarantee! Maybe some changes will happen in a couple of months, or maybe only in five years. The main thing is to treat everything that happens as a game, and not as a supergoal that must be achieved instantly, while understanding that as a result of these efforts you can get nothing and just enjoy the process.
The mechanism of action here is this: by calmly and resignedly accepting your fate, you show respect to the One Who Came Up with Everything, which is already good, and by making great efforts to change the situation, sacrificing something (your time, energy, money, confidence in your rightness, and so on) - you are working off what led to loneliness being written into your destiny and making room for something and someone new that can come into life!
There is a third way - the path of magically changing Fate. Want to know about it?
Hello dear readers of Samprosvetbyulletin!
“The psychologist didn’t help me get married, although maybe I just got caught by an incompetent specialist. I don’t believe in this psychology and despair of getting married. I read your blog, I like it, but nothing has changed yet,” - Olga wrote to me.
Also, my attention was drawn by the despair of the commentary to the article “” from Inna, who is sure that a psychologist cannot help her get married.
I receive similar questions from other readers.
“I’m unlucky in love and what will a psychologist do? I have no shackles, I am successful, I have an established career, I am full of interests, I am charming, I have so many friends, young people go crazy, but as soon as I enter into a relationship, after a fairly short period of time they begin to fall apart. And I have the same unfortunate girlfriends, beautiful, successful, just a miracle. And my uninteresting, not very attractive girlfriends managed to get married and are happy.”, writes Natasha.
Indeed, in consultations I come across the fact that some clients, disappointed in love, draw erroneous conclusions.
False Beliefs
1. There is destiny, if you are not destined to get married, then no psychologists will help
We discussed in detail how our understanding of fate affects our personal lives →.
Self-fulfilling prophecy
And now I want to dwell on the phenomenon of self-fulfilling prophecy, which was described by sociologist Robert Merton back in 1948 and confirmed by experiments.
The fact is that our expectations and beliefs are reflected in our actions, reactions and interpretation of the behavior of others. A false definition of a situation causes new behavior that changes reality so that the erroneous concept begins to come true. If we are convinced of the correctness of some information, then we involuntarily behave in such a way that it receives confirmation.
For example, if we expect bad things, then our expectations manifest themselves in behavior. Directly or indirectly, through our actions we provoke a certain situation. And our “prophecies” begin to come true.
As a psychologist, I have to deal with this phenomenon all the time. For example, a client comes and begins to tell that everything is bad, there are few men, she is over forty and there is no hope of getting married, she is unlucky, bad fate, or as some say karma, because her mother, grandmother, great-grandmother were unlucky... And indeed, these beliefs are gradually embodied in reality, leading the unfortunate woman into even greater despair. At the same time, other women with similar conditions and from the same regions get married successfully even after 50!
The phenomenon of self-fulfilling prophecies can be both harmful and beneficial. You can program yourself for failure, or you can program yourself for success. After all, believing in success is half the battle. Only those who don’t give up achieve what they want!
I know very well that there are difficult circumstances when you just have to survive, endure a lack of opportunities, an unsuitable environment from which it is difficult to get out and it is difficult to spread your wings and convince yourself that finding happiness is real. And this is precisely where psychology comes to our aid, offering practice-tested methods for overcoming difficulties, increasing one’s potential, developing abilities, and achieving goals in any conditions.
2. The psychologist is useless, and psychology is complete nonsense that does not help!
Usually, this is said by those who have not tried to use psychological knowledge or have done it incorrectly and inconsistently. Psychology is not magic, and a psychologist is not a wizard; here, like in sports, methodicality, consistency and gradualness are important.
For example, if you only work with positive thinking without taking other steps towards achieving your goal, then little will change. Or if you think positively, actively get to know each other, but do not correct behavioral errors that block your opportunities, then there will be no result. Or applying knowledge for a couple of days, and then saying, no, this is nonsense, means not understanding that everything needs time to develop and you need to put in effort for some time.
A psychologist will be really useless to you if you think that he will wave a magic wand and you will get married.
Psychologist's action plan on how to get married
I would like to bring to fruition a plan that we once drew up with one of my clients, who for a long time had not been able to meet her loved one and get married.
1) Create the right mood and develop your program of action to attract the desired partner. Material for work: → Master class “Methods of attraction that helped me attract a loved one into my life.”
2) Test your mistakes in the past and correct them. Material for work: → Training “7 Mistakes that prevent you from getting married. Quick test of problem areas. Fix it, check it, get married."
3) Select candidates correctly and test them for “suitability” in the first hours of meeting. Material for work: → Training “What a man needs to make him want to marry you.”
4) Learn to communicate and behave correctly with the opposite sex. Our manner of communication and behavior can reinforce the feelings that have arisen and develop the relationship further, or, on the contrary, can force our partner to close down. Material for work: → Training “How to communicate with a man correctly, 5 secret buttons that every woman should know.”
By the way, I once went through this plan myself and was very successful. Consistent use of the above materials really helps.
I recently received a letter from a client of mine who went through this plan.
On the other hand, in my Samprosvet club, there are participants who for the second year now have not been able to complete one training program and deal with their situation. We communicate nicely during consultations and online classes, there is an understanding of what is happening, but no real action. There are always excuses: I’ll start on Monday, I’m not in the mood, it’s hard to try new things, I’m working, I’m tired, I don’t have time, and so on.
It is not enough to know, you need to put it into practice, move small steps towards your goal every day. Sometimes there are periods of laziness and stagnation, I myself have to deal with this, when I don’t want to write articles, answer letters, play sports, or learn new things. But then you overcome laziness and feel better.
3. There are simply more women than men, someone must be left without a partner
Expand your search area
I agree that there are regions where, according to statistics, there are more women of a certain age than representatives of the stronger sex. But let's try to go beyond the borders of our region, city, region and look at the whole world. If you live in a place where there is a shortage of gentlemen, why not expand your search area?
Don't sit back, passively waiting to be noticed and chosen. Make yourself visible to as many candidates as possible, give them a chance to notice you. Use dating sites, marriage agencies, ask your friends to introduce you to new people.
The power of a smile
This is how one of my clients met her future husband at the airport. I gave her the task of smiling at young people and if a conversation arises, say that I saw them in a dream today...
A pleasant stranger was waiting for a plane in the opposite direction and was sitting within her field of vision. Starting to look at him and smile when their eyes met, she did not imagine that this handsome guy would come up to her and ask: “Do we know each other?”
The prepared phrase about sleep came in handy. A conversation ensued and the new acquaintances exchanged phone numbers, boarded different planes, and endless communication began on wats’up, then frequent meetings and eventually a wedding.
Later, my client told him that she didn’t see him in a dream, but did as the psychologist advised her. Since then, her chosen one has been sending me greetings. In fact, the future husband also immediately noticed her, but he did not dare to come up and meet her, but her smile gave him courage.
4. It is foolish to hope that one day the right person will appear if this has not happened for many years.
If you are convinced that there is no person in the whole world who is suitable for you and who could love you, you will never meet anyone.
I have a friend, a successful and quite attractive gentleman, who, after a divorce, has been single for a long time. Friends appear, but then disappear somewhere. Periodically, he calls me and asks me to introduce him to someone, adding: “although probably the right person for me simply does not exist.” Basically, he does nothing to change the situation, he is afraid to take risks and make efforts. And there are many such people.
Having experienced pain and disappointment, we are often afraid of getting burned and don’t want to take risks. To avoid new relationships, we overestimate our demands on our partners and block new acquaintances with passivity and arrogance. This makes it easier to give excuses for your loneliness: there is no suitable partner and that’s it.
And finally, the answer to the question: do psychologists help you get married? From my practice, I realized that the main thing is a strong desire to change your reality. No psychologists will help if you do not take concrete steps to improve the situation. Psychology is just a convenient tool for achieving results. But this instrument requires your desire and will.
Good luck to you and see you soon on the pages of Samprosvetbyulleten!
All your friends have been in relationships for a long time, get married, have children, and you don’t even really date anyone and wonder what’s wrong with me, why can't I get married? At first it didn’t bother me much, but the years go by and nothing changes. You stop enjoying life and get upset every time another friend announces that she has been proposed to. The situation can drag on for a long time, so even in 30-35 years the matter will not move forward.
Why can't a woman get married?
What is the reason? Why can't a woman get married??
And the reason is very simple. And it’s not that you don’t engage in self-development or somehow behave differently. Or you become so fixated on the thought of marriage that you can’t think about anything else. That's not the point. More precisely, not quite this. The reason is that thoughts are material, and you send the wrong request to the Universe, and it does not respond the way you need. Year after year you think “I want a husband and children, children and a husband, a family” - no specifics! Which husband? Who should a husband be? First of all, it must be the person you love. Even someone who doesn’t love you is the second thing. The very first message to the Universe - I want to fall in love, fall in love, meet a loved one, marry…. But stop here. These are 2 different goals. Because you can fall in love with a person who will not marry you or, conversely, marry someone who is not deeply loved. The universe is confused and does not know what task it should perform. Moreover, you are so fixated that the task has long been one - to get married. There are no words about love - of course, it goes without saying, but it shouldn’t be that way. There must be a correctly formulated, complete thought. And with your “I want to get married,” the Universe sends you faceless potential good husbands, whom you don’t even notice, because they don’t have any features that could attract you. They just pass you by in crowds, just like your years. And you still send the same request and pour from empty to empty.
Stop! Your main desire should be to fall passionately in love. Dot. Get rid of all thoughts from your head, open your eyes and “chakras”, open up to the world and meet the person to whom you are drawn. When you meet and start a relationship, there should be no thoughts about marriage or any future in your head. Everything in turn. Your friends also didn’t receive a proposal out of the blue from the first person they met - first there was acquaintance and falling in love. You also need to go through this mandatory stage. Thoughts about marriage and family are premature without him. Even if you are 35 years old. If you try to jump over this stage in your head, you will never succeed.
Why can't a beautiful girl get married?
Causes, why can't a beautiful girl get married?, lie approximately in the same plane as in relation to other girls. One can, of course, argue that the beautiful ones have more demands and they waste time waiting for the prince, but this is only one of the reasons and not the most important one.
The second reason: beauty is nothing if you don’t know how to present it correctly. There are very few truly beautiful girls who disarm at first sight. But beauty is not only about appearance. This also means knowing how to “frame” this appearance. A huge number of beautiful actresses are lonely or unhappy in love because their beauty is “empty”.
The third reason: beauty and attractiveness are two different things. You can be beautiful like the Madonna from the images, but you will only be admired from afar. Men are attracted to sexuality. Don't confuse it with debauchery! And a virgin can be sexually attractive.
The fourth reason: everything in a woman loses value, including beauty, when she is conquered or really wants to achieve a man.
Read more about the influence of beautiful appearance on happiness in your personal life.
Why some people don't get married
And yet it happens that not everyone manages to build family happiness. There are a number of other reasons why some people don't get married at all. Oddly enough, the main one is a hidden reluctance to actually be married. Everyone who wanted to get married is all there sooner or later. Think about this phrase literally. When the main thing is the stamp in the passport, then the rest is secondary - the appearance, age, “quality” of the man. Therefore, “getting married is not a problem” - there is a saying. But this is not the case in the minds of many women. They just don’t need marriage in this form. This is the key point. An internal substitution is taking place - I want to get married, but at the same time I don’t want to marry those who are nearby. The first thing is to meet the right person. It's not always easy. Some people need one thing, others something completely different. Until the puzzle meets all the necessary parameters, there will be no picture. But waiting can disappoint, depress and lead to the thought that there is no such person for me. And even worse is to go to extremes and build relationships with completely unsuitable people, which leaves pain and despair in your soul. They, in turn, reduce the chances, because the person is more focused on internal experiences than on the ability to discern a potential partner.
Remember the stories about how women quickly got married after they relaxed and said “it’s not fate, well, okay.” How they mutually fell in love literally immediately after they decided that this would not happen in their lives. The main thing is not to focus on age. And then many people write - I’m already 37! So what? What does this affect? The fact that the infantiles who “love” a young body up to 20 will no longer exist. So this is even a plus!
Fortune telling by date of birth: find out how your destiny will turn out
Numerology- an ancient mystical science that studies the energy of numbers and its influence on human life. Anyone who is interested in this knowledge can carry out fortune telling by date of birth for the future, adding up the numbers that form the date. This way you can find out about your destiny, love compatibility, marriage prepared for you and the number of children.
All calculations are very simple, even a first-grader can handle them.
Calculation of the number of fate
To begin to master the principles of numerology, we will conduct a simple fortune telling by date of birth and year of birth, which will show the number of your destiny. Let us consider this calculation in detail using a conditional example.
Let's say you were born on October 30, 1990. Write your date of birth in a similar format: 10/30/1990.
Now add up all the numbers you see. 3+0+1+0+1+9+9+0 = 23.
If you get a two-digit number, continue adding the visible numbers until you get a result from 1 to 9. In the example, 2+3 = 5.
This is your destiny number, which determines the core of your personality. Other numbers present in your date of birth describe character traits that are expressed to a lesser extent.
In our example, these are the numbers 1,3,9, and weakly expressed 2. The qualities inherent in the numbers, which are not in the calculation, are not inherent in you from birth, they can only be acquired by long and hard work on yourself.
Destiny number meanings
1. The number of bright individuals. You are a born leader and know how to lead people. Easily become the life of the party and win sympathy. Higher powers have allowed you to pass a lot of energy through yourself, treat this gift with care. Without understanding that all people on earth are equal and deserve love, it is easy to catch “star fever” and begin to push people away with inflated self-esteem.
2. The number of people with a gentle character. You do not like conflicts, preferring to give in in disputes and adapt to your interlocutor. Family and friends value you, and you are always happy to help them, but selfish people can easily use you for their own purposes. You rarely change anything in your life, more often you adapt to circumstances that do not suit you. You are attracted to spirituality and love children.
3. Number of optimists. In everything you see first of all the positive side. You have a lot of energy, which you use to improve your destiny and help others. You prefer to take responsibility and be an activist in any area of life.
4. Number of rebels. Your purpose is to break down what does not lead to goodness and benefit, to rid other people of what is unnecessary and outdated. Being a “revolutionary” in life is your essence, and no one has the right to reproach you for it. If you feel that your intervention will help in some situation, do not hesitate to take action. But remember about self-control, such a gift can develop into a desire to contradict any rules.
5. Number of experimenters. Your creative character immediately sets you apart from the crowd of banal people who live only by work and family. You love traveling, learning new things, experimenting with appearance and clothing. Everything you undertake goes smoothly and quickly in your hands. However, you become easily discouraged when, for some reason, your life becomes mundane. Only a new idea can return you to your usual state.
6. Number of choleric people. It is in your nature to be defiant and prone to hysterics. Remember that everything that higher powers give us, they do for some purpose, a secret for people. Live in peace with your character, accept and love yourself for who you are. The people who are meant for you will be there anyway, if you lost someone because of your character, then it was destined to be so.
7. Number of philosophers. You love to think about how life works. It will be easy for you to succeed in any work related to mental work. However, you may find it difficult to relate to people because your mind outweighs your feelings. Read books on psychology to better understand those around you and make it easier to establish contacts with them.
8. Number of singles. You tend to be introverted, withdrawn and cold. There is a need within you to create your own little world, subordinate only to you. However, deep down, you need warmth and support from other people. You are destined to find a few good friends with whom you will feel comfortable, but an active social life is not for you.
9. Number of leaders. You were born to control other people. You are hardworking and love to be an organizer, you look to the future and confidently move towards your goals, achieving success in any endeavor. Having the right to judge other people, you are inclined to objectivity and impartiality, the principle of “to each his due.”
Calculation on relationships
Having mastered the method of calculating the fate number, you can conduct fortune telling for compatibility by date of birth. To do this, under a plausible pretext, find out the date of birth of your chosen one; the exact year is especially important, because it happens that boys add years to themselves, and girls get younger. Knowing both dates of birth, you can calculate compatibility for a couple. Let's look at this again with an example.
Let's say that girl with a date of birth of 10/30/1990 met a guy with a date of birth of 07/19/1996. Let's add together the numbers from both dates: 3+0+1+0+1+9+9+0+1+9+0+7+1+9+9+6=65
Favorable numbers for serious relationships are 2, 3, 5, 6, 10, 14, 17, 19, 21. You may want to break up with your partner if you get 9, 12, 13, 15, 16, 18 and 22. Future pairs with numbers 1, 4, 7, 8, 11,14, 22 are completely in your hands.
Interpretation
1. Love is war. Partners will always compete because everyone wants to be the leader in the relationship. It is very difficult for such a couple to find harmony.
2. The perfect match. You fit together like two halves of one whole. Such couples often live to see their golden wedding, maintaining love and tenderness for many years.
3. Ideal lovers. You are well suited to each other in bed, and your union is based on romance.
4. Relationships are unstable and may fall apart due to the influence of outsiders. However, they can also lead to the creation of a family - everything is in your hands. Listen to your partner, respect him, look for more interests in order to maintain the union.
5. Patriarchy. The relationships are similar to those described in “Domostroy”. Constant jealousy on the part of a man, a desire to take control. Frequent scandals. Decide, do you need it?
6. Misalliance. Partners are not alike. Sometimes this is visible outwardly - a man or woman is several decades older. But more often it is a union of people who have completely different ideas about life. People say about such couples that “opposites attract.” The karmic goal of this connection is the mutual development of two souls, learning a different point of view, acquiring new experience.
7. Strong family. These relationships are built on mutual understanding and respect. But there is a danger of losing love; at first, a strong feeling will turn into a habit over the years, the marriage will depend on children and common life. Unfortunately, many people live like this.
8. Companions. Such a union is based on the common hobbies of a man and a woman. They may be colleagues, or love to travel, or meet at a stamp collecting club meeting. Partners support each other, and both strive to develop in their occupation.
9. Partners. Unfortunately, the love in this couple will not last long. But a common cause can unite you as friends for many years.
10. Individuality. This union will not work out until the end. At the energy level, a man and a woman will not merge into a single whole; each will remain with their own goals and objectives. In the eyes of secular society, such a family will be complete, but many, subconsciously feeling karmic incompatibility, continue to look for a partner, which leads to betrayal.
11. Fragile relationships. You and your partner are suitable for each other and can eventually start a family. However, such a marriage is unstable to external circumstances and can easily fall apart due to damage to the relationship or everyday problems. Knowing this, be tolerant of your spouse, choose dialogue instead of quarrel.
12. Union of egoists. Both partners are not inclined to give in to each other and compromise even in small things. As a rule, these relationships do not last long.
13. The need for sacrifice. These couples are bound by true love, but sooner or later a moment arises when one of the partners must sacrifice something important in order to preserve the union. For example, a man will work 12 hours a day so that he has enough money for the children, or a woman will be forced to move to her husband’s city, leaving her parents and friends.
14. Unfavorable number. The couple will soon separate.
15. Stormy passions. The couple will have heated quarrels and reconciliation; how long this will last depends on the patience of both. False. One of the partners is hiding something. These could be children from a previous marriage, infidelity, facts about one’s past. Insincerity leaves a crack in the couple’s energy field, so the union can be easily destroyed by outside influence. But it is better not to develop this relationship at the very beginning.
16. Affair. One of the partners is not serious about the other. Even if it comes to marriage, it will soon fall apart. But such couples are well compatible in bed.
17. Loneliness. Couples cannot complement each other to become one. Everyone notices that something is missing in the relationship, and people soon break up.
18. Matriarchy. In a relationship, the woman is in charge, she is the one who makes all the main decisions, and the future of the union depends on her wishes. Under excessive pressure, a man either becomes henpecked or begins to lead a double life, releasing his personality outside the family hearth.
19. Movement. Partners will push each other to develop and explore the world together. The future of the relationship is entirely in their hands.
20. Family nest. Tender and long-term relationship. In such marriages many children are born, and the spouses remain together until old age.
21. Exam. The couple will face many difficulties at the stage of getting to know each other and getting used to each other. But the partners will overcome all conflicts and external circumstances, the marriage will be strong and long.
22. Unpredictability. Fate will test this couple all the time. If your partner is truly dear to you, prepare for life like on a powder keg.
When I get married?
Surely, after the previous fortune telling, this question interested you. And again, numerology will help. Let's do fortune telling for marriage based on date of birth.
Your destiny number will come in handy again. Find it in the list below and see which numbers of the year correspond to it.
1.
1,4,5,7
2.
1,5,6,8
3.
3,6,7,9
4.
1,4,7,8
5.
2,5,7,9
6.
1,3,6,9
7.
1,2,4,8
8.
1,2,6,8
9.
2,3,6,7
The number of the year is calculated simply, for example 2017=2+0+1+7 = 10 = 1. Find 1 in the right half of the list above. This means that women with destiny numbers 1,2,4,6,7,8 can get married this year.
Here are the numbers calculated for the next ten years
2017 = 1
2018 = 2
2019 = 3
2020 = 4
2021 = 5
2022 = 6
2023 = 7
2024 = 8
2025 = 9
2026 = 1
That is, a woman with a destiny number of 5 will most likely get married in 2017 or 2021. Compare lists, find favorable years for yourself, but remember that everything is in your hands.
They won't send you an invitation to your own wedding if you sit within four walls and don't meet men.
How many children will there be?
And numerology knows the answer to this question. Fortune telling by date of birth for future motherhood is very simple. Count all your brothers and sisters, both natural and step-brothers, and even adopted ones. Add their number to your destiny number.
Let's say a girl with destiny number 5 has a paternal half-brother and an adopted sister. Then 5+2=7. If you get more than 10, add the numbers again.
Find the number you got in the list:
1.
as much as you can save. If you wish, you can even become a mother of many children, but you will face challenges during pregnancy and in the first years of the baby’s life. Therefore, if you want many children, you should be more careful about your health now.
2.
one child. Don't be upset if you want more. In this case, you will have to show the higher powers that you will be a good mother - choose a worthy man, resolve financial issues in the family, raise your first child with love and care.
3.
as much as you want, but not right away. Perhaps you will have a long search for a suitable father, or the need for treatment, or other circumstances will prevent you from having children. All tests are sent for the good, for your development, you will definitely become a mother when you come to this.
4.
two, a boy and a girl. Ideal option, right?
5.
high chance of having twins. Or you will have at least two children, of any gender.
6.
several children from different fathers. Try to raise them by giving the same amount of warmth and attention to each.
7.
having children is not your priority. You will become childfree or give birth to one late child. This is your path and no one has the right to judge you, everyone has their own karma. If you want to change your destiny, read about the number 2.
8.
you are destined to become a foster mother. You can have as many children as you like; your duty is to give warmth not only to your baby. This does not have to be realized through adoption; you can, for example, become a second mother for your nephews, or choose a job related to children - a teacher, nanny, playground instructor.
9.
two children of any gender.
Conclusion
- Remember that numerology tells you about destiny, destined even before birth. But our destiny is half made up of what is given to us, and half - from our conscious actions taken day by day.
— A person’s life is not written like a book, from the title to the epilogue. The destiny destined for you before birth is a plan for a future masterpiece, a script, a list of chapters, to which the Creator easily makes adjustments as he writes. It all depends on your business.
Beautiful, stately, smart, exquisite taste. Cleanliness and comfort in the house. Several foreign languages as a bonus, and one? That's why not all women can get married and start a family?
Loneliness, and there are no marriage proposals, but I really want a family and children! ? I will not delve into the negative influences from envious friends and ill-wishers. These factors of loneliness are certainly present in our lives, but not in such quantities as the ladies supposedly summarize.
